Monday, February 20, 2017


•What is interpersonal relationship? (IR)


     We define types of interpersonal relationships in terms of relational contexts of interaction and the types of expectations that communicators have of one another to participate in positive, caring, and respectful relationships.

•Hubungan interpersonal adalah:
   ➛Hubungan dua orang atau lebih, memiliki ketergantungan dan menggunakan pola interaksi yang konsisten
   ➛HI membutuhkan interpersonal attraction (IA), penilaian terhadap orang lain.
   ➛Yang mempengaruhi IA adalah faktor internal, eksternal dan interaksi.
  •Faktor Faktor yang mempengaruhi Interpersonal attraction
  •Kebutuhan berinteraksi & pengaruh perasaan. 
  •Proximity & daya tarik fisik 
  •Persamaan-perbedaan & reciprocal liking
•Bentuk2 Hubungan Interpersonal
  •Family and kinship 
  •Professional relationship
  •Casual relationship
  •Brotherhood and sisterhood
  •Interpersonal Relationships vary in differing levels of intimacy and sharing, implying the discovery or establishment of common ground, and may be centered around something(s) shared in common.
Enam Kunci Sukses HI
 2.Self confidence,
 3.Positive personal impact,
 4.Outstanding performance,
 5.Communication skills
 6.Interpersonal competence

➧Dimensi Cinta:

Menjaga sebuah hubungan




•Mengapa Ketrampilan Interpersonal dibutuhkan?
•Untuk memperbaiki:
•Hubungan kerja
•Lingkungan kerja
•Ketrampilan kepemimpinan
•Kesuksesan semua hal
•Berhubungan dengan orang lain

Ms. Jones  
    Ms. Jones and Ms. James are Science teachers in a High School. Ms. James would leave most of the departmental duties for Ms Jones to perform. Ms. James usually criticize her teaching style and her ideas in the departmental meetings.  Ms. Jones & Ms. James have been in charge of the  entry for the National Science Fair for the past 3 years.  Ms Jones receives no help from Ms. James and very limited help from the other science teachers.  When the school won the award last year for most outstanding amateur alternative heating source, Ms. James, took all the accolades without acknowledging Ms Jones’ hard work.   Ms. James is now head of the Science Department and she is now even more critical and insulting.  Ms Jones felt slighted as she is the one who has done most of the work in the Department for the past 5 years.
  Ms Jones should…?  

   •HI untuk Manajer atau Leader
•Understanding self
•Building a positive functional multidisciplinary team
•Improving intra and/or inter team communication, coordination and cooperation
•Improved decision making and problem solving

  Komunikasi adalah faktor kunci
    •Communication is the lifeline of any relationship. Without it, the relationship will starve
      to its death.
    •You can change your world by changing your words... Remember, death and life are in   
      the power of the tongue.

•Komunikasi adalah faktor kunci
    •Half the world is composed of people who have something to say and can't, and the
      other half who have nothing to say and keep on saying it
    •To say nothing, especially when speaking, is half the art of diplomacy

•No matter how hard you work or how many brilliant ideas you may have, if you can’t connect with  the people who work around you, your professional life will suffer.
•Research indicates skills essential for effective teamwork are:
•communicating and relating effectively,
•empathy and respect for the feelings and views of others,
•accurate self-evaluation of performance and relationships, and
•conflict management using active listening skills and empathy. 

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